SELF-LOVE

In this world, we are so busy looking for people to express our love till we forget about ourselves.

Mostly, we find it hard to show more love towards ourselves and why is that? Probably, this may not seem consequential to some but self-love is one of the best things to do for ourselves. Self-love is not always easy but it provides confidence and brings more positive energy to us. Amongst the most, if we learn to love ourselves, we can gain the vibes that bring happiness to us.

Looking at us we find a lot of different flaws and also feel lame about it. It is really difficult to bring that energy and enhancement to give extra attention and care to yourself. Sometimes, we do remember too many past experiences and fail to love ourselves. Thinking about past experiences or mistakes will never let us progress in our life. We as humans, make mistakes and that is one of the most natural things that happen. We can never avoid it and that is why we are all humans. Accepting the pain and allowing yourself to be honest with who you are is a big step to love yourself. Forgive yourself for past actions and things you are embarrassed by doing. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Therefore, we should take our experiences as a good lesson and always find ways to get over them.

How can we start loving ourselves? First of all, we should get freedom from our minds. Freedom, a pretty word many people do not embrace. Freedom means giving ourselves what we need to accomplish our dreams. One of the traps and cage of our life is our mind. An overthinking mind with unnecessary thoughts. All we can do about this is keep calm and listen to your mind often. Organize your thoughts in mind and bring more positive energy to you. The less we do this, the less we understand ourselves and this can bring frustration in life and we may feel demotivated all the time. When we are demotivated, there comes more confusion and we will not be able to take decisions wisely. When you begin to love yourself and continue to love yourself more and more each day, things slowly will be a little bit better in every way. Celebrate your every little success. 

Apart from this, we shall start doing what we love and it gives one great relief to us. It can be anything, whatever you feel like doing for your happiness. Be good to yourself and also surround yourself with people who bring out your best qualities. Always remember and accept the fact that when you grow, sometimes you lose people and that is fine. Besides, saying no to others when you don’t have the time or energy to say yes is important as well. From time to time, forcing yourself to do something you don’t prefer can drain your mind and soul. We often do too much for other people because we want to please everyone and that is how we have been raised in this society. We always practice and choose to live for others and end up not living for ourselves. That is not right, do not make the shift from anyone and put ourselves down.

No matter where you are and what is your current situation, remember today is the day you can love yourself completely with no expectations. Making the choice right now to choose your self-love is the most powerful healing force you have and it gives you great strength. The upshot of all this is that, when you love yourself more, your smile and conversation will be more genuine and in turn, you will attract other happy people. When you gain the positivity around, you will feel more satisfied with yourself and the decisions that you make, and not weighed down by the common stressors that come along with not doing what you love. Overall, you feel more lifted and have far greater peace of mind. 

Believe in you, Belief in your Journey. You are the Best. 💓