Shalin.Writes

Betrayal is something we never expected to go through in our lives. Betrayal has the power to alter a person's entire life. It creates a feeling that goes beyond pain and causes us to question everything around us. We forget how to trust people after that, and it makes our lives miserable by causing us to overthink everything. Some people find it so simple to break a trust. It doesn’t matter whether it’s a friendship, relationship, or anyone that trusted us.  Every person who has been betrayed in their life has the same question: "Why did you do this?" I had faith in you.” Some people do not choose to betray, but circumstances that they are unable to handle may force them to do so. However, some people choose to do it and do not respect your trust in them. In a way, these things show how much you matter to them, and you should know what you need to do next when you don't matter anywhere in their lives.  Betrayal can drive you to the point where you decide not to live ...

  There will be a lot of people around you, but at the end of the day, you may feel as if there is no one for you.  What makes you feel that way, and how do you get it? Where do you get the loneliness from? 🥀 Several questions may arise in your mind, and you may seek answers. Loneliness is commonly defined as being alone or failing to engage with those people around us. Loneliness, on the other hand, is a state of mind. Loneliness makes people feel empty, alone, and unwelcome. Lonely people frequently crave human contact, but their mental state makes it more difficult to connect with  others.  We all experience loneliness from time to time. Loneliness is a personal experience, so everyone's experience will be different. There will be different causes of loneliness for each person such as depression, losing loved ones, low self esteem or maybe insecurities. Being an introvert is completely different from being lonely.  Some people may choose to be alone and live...

  We are all part of abuse under the present circumstances. The majority of people are unaware of this. We can be the victim or the abuser at any time. The majority of people believe that if they were verbally abused, they would be aware of it. After all, ranting, put-downs, name-calling, and belittling behaviors are common forms of verbal abuse. However, there is a lot more verbal abuse than most people realize. Indeed, some people are verbally abused regularly without even realizing it. This happens because verbal abuse is not as obvious as other forms of abuse such as physical bullying, cyberbully, and sexual bullying, it can be difficult to identify. However, this does not make it any less real. Verbal abuse can be any type of verbal interaction that causes emotional harm to a person, often prompting them to question their identity. This can happen regardless of gender. It is a way of exerting and retaining power over another person. It is not uncommon for a verbal abuse victim...

Adding a little kindness to our daily life is important. 😇 Do you remember someone being kind to you? How does that make you feel? Now let’s think the other way round. Have you ever been kind to someone? Let’s think! Why do you even need kindness? How does that change your life? Kindness, a simple act that makes someone and ourselves happy. Kindness can be as simple as a warm smile, a touch, or a word of encouragement, a wish, or just saying “I am there for you”. It is also a communication between two souls which is yourself and the other person you showing your kindness to. In this busy world and now during this pandemic, you don’t leave a lot of time to think about others. We are busy taking care of ourself and daily task. That's not to say you are selfish or ungrateful. But maybe it just means that the feelings of those around you can get lost in the shuffle of everyday life. Another important fact is, kindness is not always showing others, we can be kind to ourselves too...

In this world, we are so busy looking for people to express our love till we forget about ourselves. Mostly, we find it hard to show more love towards ourselves and why is that? Probably, this may not seem consequential to some but self-love is one of the best things to do for ourselves. Self-love is not always easy but it provides confidence and brings more positive energy to us. Amongst the most, if we learn to love ourselves, we can gain the vibes that bring happiness to us. Looking at us we find a lot of different flaws and also feel lame about it. It is really difficult to bring that energy and enhancement to give extra attention and care to yourself. Sometimes, we do remember too many past experiences and fail to love ourselves. Thinking about past experiences or mistakes will never let us progress in our life. We as humans, make mistakes and that is one of the most natural things that happen. We can never avoid it and that is why we are all humans. Accepting the pain and allowin...

  We as humans definitely will have our list of goals.  It can be categorized in various forms such as personal desires, passion, hobbies, and ambitions.  Most of it will be failed due to our insecurities or hesitations.  It took deep courage for me to even type this out.  Finally, I began it. All of us will have a little desire to begin something and finish it with great success. Randomly, that is how my writing starts too. Being a writer was my passion and after many years finally I tried. O verthinking stopped me from doing it and  did not let me come out of my comfort zone.  At least, Better late than never. 👍 Most people have this question in their mind, "Am I qualified for this?', "Can I do this?", "Is someone going to laugh at me?". These are the common questions and also a step of avoidance from what we wanted to do. But why most of us do not question ourselves "How do we know the results without even trying it?". That’s where you get you...